Ms. J is a confectioner of sissy shame. She bakes me into a pink parfait, then eats me up. Sissy-shaming seems to come naturally to her, and she is very good at it. I think she enjoys it almost as much as I need it. My job is to be sweet, obedient, and present. When she is talking me through a lap spanking, with my frillies pulled aside to display my bare bottom, surrender never felt so good
I was a first timer, I and must say that Mistress Josephine was amazing. Beforehand, she helped me define what a meaningful session is for me and my limits. From the start, she was truly overwhelming (strong and smart!) and took control quickly. She pushed me towards the edge, yet teamed and guided me and was respectful of limits throughout. If you're thinking of exploring this world, trusting yourself with Mistress Josephine is the way to do it- she will deliver an intense, meaningful and safe experience!
As I have been tip-toeing into the world of OTK, I had the great fortune of meeting Ms. Josephine at the Shadowlane party in Vegas. I have since had two appointments with her at her studio in L.A.
She has been nothing short of amazing. To start a session, we discussed what I was looking for and all the boundaries and limitations. Ms. Josephine delivered on everything. My mind was spinning for a couple of hours afterwards and I felt wonderful.
She is beautiful, with a strong, slender build and definitely in charge in the best way possible.
I will definitely be back for more.
Recently, I had a most excellent roleplay with Ms. Josephine Drake. Because it was so enriching, others should know what made it so good.
When planning on a playful fetish adventure, the most critical part is good communication. Before seeking an appointment, I looked at her website and public social media activity. Her website is informative, succinct and honest. It clearly describes her interests. Her media activities show that she has friends in the scene and is popular with her peers. She has loyal clients.
We talked about our scene well before it happened. This included highlighting the activities that intrigued and triggered both of us. During play, M. Josephine asked key questions and noted my reactions to the play while deciding whether to ramp up the play, which she did. She is not for the faint-hearted. She is focused, strong, and direct. You will get what you ask for and deserve. She has a lot of energy and will feed off of your energy.
In summary, I found Josephine to be a total professional in the best sense of the word. We had a fun and meaningful adventure. I would recommend her to honest, good people who want to experience thrilling play with a trustworthy partner.
For those of you who are looking for an exquisitely authentic immersion into adult baby play or an intense "strict mommy" head fuck, Josephine not only looks like your strict mommy, she becomes your strict mommy. You best brace yourself. She's stronger than you. Smarter than you. And more focused than you. You're going down!
An amazing women whom I've had the honor of playing with twice. An unforgettable experience.
From Max Fisch - The Hang
I had a wonderful traditional spanking session with Josephine Drake today. She says on her website that she "plays a 'Mommy Knows Best' role, bending naughty boys over for punishment and correction." She wasn't kidding. I hadn't sessioned in a long time but when I saw that she was visiting my home town of Los Angeles, I decided it was time to come out of retirement. She was delightful on the phone and spoke to me with frankness and understanding about my fascination with traditional discipline. We quickly realized that we were on the same page and we set up a session.
As soon as she opened the door, I realized I made the right choice. She wasn't decked out in a latex dominatrix get-up, but had on a soft purple blouse and traditional black skirt. She chooses not to show her face on her website, but she is a beautiful woman who would fit the superficial requirements of any potential client. I had told her on the phone that my ideal disciplinarian would be one of the female anchors on Fox News, and she fit that description to a tee.
She had told me that she had struggled finding a suitable venue for domestic sessions in L.A., since most of the ones available are forbidding dungeons. To my great surprise, she managed to get a downtown location which she was able to adapt into a reasonably homey atmosphere, with a clean bathroom adjacent to it. I had explained a variety of details on the phone and to my great delight, she immediately began to incorporate them. She was my new "Mommy" who was going to be taking care of me from now on. I had mentioned to her a detail from my childhood that I always like to incorporate into sessions when I had very long hair and would kick and scream when my mother dragged me into the bathroom to give me a trim. Acting on that memory, Ms. Drake produced a razor and some clippers and announced that the first order of business would be to give me a crewcut and shave my beard off to make me look like a presentable young man.
That was my cue to throw the tantrum to set the scene in motion. I was immediately stripped down to my underpants and yanked over Ms. Drake's knee for a spanking. She is a delightfully accomplished spanker; able to administer the maximum of discipline without relying solely on the pain of the impact to teach her lesson. As she scolded me, tears began rolling down my cheeks and I begged her to stop. Needless to say, she did not. Then, I made the mistake of uttering the forbidden F-Word.
I asked her on the phone if she did mouthsoaping and she responded with a Cheshire Cat-like "Ooooooooooooooh, yes." She took the soap that I had brought with me for that purpose and stuck it in my mouth. This resulted in the only negative aspect of the session (though no fault of Ms. Drake's) where my tongue was burned pretty badly by the soap. I've had my mouth soaped many times and I've never experienced that before, and I can say with assurance that it had nothing to do with what Ms. Drake was doing. I only bring it up to make anyone who is considering that type of session be aware that it is a possibility (I am confident that burning with eventually go away without any lasting effects).
She did a really wonderful job of standing with me in the bathroom after the soap was finally removed and rinsed out the residue with a bottle of water as though she was feeding me like a baby. Then, after a moment of corner time to think about what I had done, I was yanked back across her lap for another long spanking. She used the hairbrush for a while at my request, but when it became more than I could take and I shouted out the pre-arranged safe word, she switched to hand spanking with was less painful but no less effective in dealing with my attitude.
After we had been at it for the prearranged hour, I was a sweaty mess. She led me back to the bathroom and had me give her my underwear so I could get cleaned up. I thought she was actually going to give me a bath (afterwards, she said she almost did) but instead she instructed me to shower and meet her back in the main room, commenting to my delight that she'd be shaving my pubic area as well.
We exchanged a pleasant conversation as she watched me dress and chatted about what we enjoyed about domestic discipline. I felt an enormous emotional catharsis from what we did together and found Ms. Drake to be a virtuoso at this type of session. There is a terrible dearth of ladies who provide domestic sessions in Los Angeles and Ms. Drake told me that she was visiting the city for the summer to try it out. I strongly recommend that anyone in the area who is into "Mommy" scenarios look her up.
Domestic discipline and wrestling
I have known and played with Mistress Josephine for almost 15 years. Her beauty, strength, dominance, intelligence and playfulness-- those are well known and of course those characteristics have kept me coming back over and over... but there’s so much more. She’s helped me to come more fully into myself, to be comfortable with my quirks and kinks and not to be shy about that with my personal partners. For years I’d felt something was “wrong” with my desires, but times have changed-- Mistress Josephine has made a huge difference in my life.
If you’re sort of new to this and want to test the waters, try out some sorts of kinky activities, you’re in the right place because she really has a commitment to the larger context of BDSM. Heck, you can even see her commitment to “education” in this web site; it can have layers of meaning; a spanking or beating could open some self discovery at a deeper level.
And if you’ve been around the block a few times, know what you want, well, she can fit most of those needs as well. Over the years we’ve done many varied scenes, too numerous to enumerate; what an imagination and mind springs from this woman!
While I don’t like the word “professional" in reference to her because it might sound aloof and cool, Mistress Josephine has been a dominatrix for over 20 years, so professional she is. However, she is also caring, listens to what one wants, knows her own boundaries and can deliver a session that’s out of sight.
I wish you the very best in your own explorations. Mistress Josephine has a lot to offer.
I’ve had several incredible sessions with Mistress Josephine Drake. Each encounter was an intense, erotic ride. Mistress Drake is one of the most creative and beautiful Mistresses around. I was often surprised at the level of my own submission when I was in her presence-– she took me there easily and I loved every enthralling minute of it. I can’t wait to be under her firm hand again soon.
Josephine is the total package. Our session alternated between competitive and semi-competitive, and Josephine's technical wrestling and jiu jitsu skills were outstanding. I am 6' 200lbs, in decent shape and reasonably athletic, and I have no real grappling training. I was able to maintain a neutral position with Josephine for a while, and use my weight advantage to power out of a couple of bad positions in ways that would never work against a bigger person, but I never came close to submitting her or even gaining a superior position. She will be able to submit anyone who does not have a LOT of high-level grappling training. If you are much bigger and stronger than her you might do OK fighting her off for a while but in the end she has the skills and athleticism to handle anyone who isn't in the NFL. Josephine was also great about tailoring the session to the specific submissions I told her I was interested in. She is punctual, fun, beautiful, and rock solid. She is very intelligent, and goes out of her way to accommodate (appropriate) session-relevant requests, such as taunting and the like. In sum, she is a classy professional with fantastic jiu jitsu skills, and she exceeded my expectations, which were already quite high.